Welcome — I’m Kimberley

Psychosocial Therapist. ACT Coach. Founder of TogetherSamen. Intercultural Guide. Change Facilitator.

Most of all though, I’m a fellow human being who understands that although life is beautiful, it’s not always easy.

My story

Over 25 years ago, I left South Wales, UK, for the Netherlands as a brave and curious 18-year-old, chasing adventure and following her heart. Looking back many years later, I realise that I was actually running away from my circumstances – from a life where I didn’t feel truly seen or accepted for who I was. I was often confused – why did I miss my country so much when it was me who took the decision to leave it? Now I understand that I was seeking acceptance and love, not necessarily a new geographical home.

Today, I live in Hilversum, NL, with my anchor – my Dutch partner, and our two much loved (and often head strong!) teenage daughters who bring so much inspiration, curiosity, laughter, energy and challenges to our everyday lives, along with our beloved dog Holly and cat Koobie. And yet, the other side of the coin is that I have often felt like the ‘outsider’ in my own family, the only non-Dutch one, navigating a language, customs, and traditions that haven’t held the same meaning for me. I know first-hand how interesting, heart-warming, complex, and often lonely, intercultural life can feel.

I have more than 20+ years of experience of working within recruitment and HR environments, although deep down I felt something was missing – the genuine connection needed to help individuals in their personal journeys, not just in their careers.

During the Covid pandemic, everything I had built over 2 decades seemed to crash down. I lost my sense of direction in my relationships, my job and within myself. For many years I had been living according to the needs, wishes and expectations of others and society – on autopilot, disconnected. This insight was a painful awakening, and at the same time also such a gift. It brought me back to my heart – to my values, my needs, and a deep desire to live true to myself.

I finally came to understand something profound: it wasn’t that others weren’t accepting me – it was that I hadn’t yet learned to accept myself.

This insight led me to retrain to become a Psychosocial Therapist, I made the decision to listen to my heart and not my fears – to help others through their personal journeys, whilst offering my knowledge, my experience and my compassion.

As the founder of TogetherSamen, I offer guidance for those navigating the many layers of life in the Netherlands – or wherever their international/ intercultural life has taken them.

Every day, I’m moved by the wonderful people I meet. I am inspired by the courage, strength and resilience of those building a new life in a different environment. Seeing how others adapt to change teaches me so much and motivates me in my own life and in my therapy practice.

The way I work

We all go through difficult periods in our lives. Often, we can overcome them ourselves with the support of those around us. Sometimes, though, a bit of extra support is needed. That’s where I can walk beside you, offering a space for you to pause, to breath, and to find your footing again.

My approach is person-centred and grounded in acceptance and compassion. I meet you where you are – with warmth, respect, and genuine curiosity. Therapy can be deep and emotional, but it can also include humour and moments of lightness; growth often comes through small shifts and gentle awareness.

Languages

Sessions together can be in English or Dutch, or a mix of the two languages if that makes things easier.

Session options

I offer both in-person and online therapy sessions, depending on what is practical for your situation. If you live further away or outside my local area, online sessions provide a flexible and accessible way for us to work together. If you’re nearby, we can meet in person or have hybrid sessions. My aim is to make therapy as accessible and supportive as possible, wherever you are.

Method

I mainly work with Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT) – a mindful, values based approach that helps you move toward a more meaningful and connected life.

I may also draw on Positive Psychology, Voice Dialogue, Body-Oriented Therapy, or Creative/Systemic methods.

Above all

It’s important to me that you feel safe and supported in your process. From there, we can begin walking the first steps of your new path together.

Testimonials

I had several therapy sessions with Kimberley. In the beginning, I was very nervous — I’m not someone who easily opens up about my emotions, and I wasn’t sure where this journey would lead. I had tried different therapists before, but without a genuine connection, I quickly lost interest. For me, it’s essential to feel that the person truly cares, and that is exactly what Kimberley showed me. With her, I felt safe from the very first session. She really listened to what I was saying and offered practical advice that was easy to integrate into my daily life. She guided me step by step, and not once did I feel overwhelmed by the changes we were making or by the exercises she gave me along the way. I highly recommend Kimberley. She creates such a feeling of safety, is a wonderful listener, and is incredibly easy to talk to. Thank you, Kimberley, for all your help and support.

Working with Kimberley over the past year has been one of the most supportive and transformative experiences of my life. It was my first year in the Netherlands, and she played a huge role in helping me feel more grounded and supported during this big transition. Her caring and gentle approach made me feel safe from the very first session. Through mindfulness practices, meditation techniques, and other helpful tools, she guided me in navigating challenges with more clarity, calm, and confidence. Kimberley is exceptionally skilled, deeply intuitive, and truly dedicated to the well-being of the people she supports. I always felt heard, understood, and encouraged. I’m incredibly grateful for everything she has helped me with, and I couldn’t recommend her more highly.

Kimberley gave me insight into how important (and simple) self-care can be with the help of mindfulness. She has a warmth in the way she connects, and creates space for conversation, but especially for sensory feeling and putting words into motion. She works professionally, has a soft, receptive energy, and works in alignment with the client/person. She also uses tools and techniques such as interventions, walking meditation, or suggestions for what you can do at home for more relaxation.

While I was spending 77 weeks on a waiting list to see a psychologist, I had several ACT therapy sessions with Kimberley. I didn’t know anything about ACT at first but online research mentioned it could help with my ADHD so I was curious to see if this therapy could help in any way. Kimberley was so patient, always taking extra time to listen to me, helping find what could work for ME. She made me feel heard (which is already a big deal being so far away from everyone I know and trust). I was probably not the best client (usually forgetting to do the exercises that were supposed to help me), but she kept with me and so did the tools she gave me (which I remember to take out every once in a while!)

Kimberley guided me in a calm and careful way during ACT therapy. Her attentive presence and gentle approach helped me to experience more space and direction. I gained a great deal from her way of working, which is people-centred and involved. The guidance inspired me to further deepen my knowledge of ACT, to follow training for this, and to apply ACT within my job as career coach.